“The average man thinks he’s great in bed, doesn’t he?” Only a few days ago, while chatting with some young lively and adventurous women, one of them complained that, “Some men’s between the sheets activities could be quite frustrating. It’s not that they lack enthusiasm, the problem is their technique— they scarcely have any. Foreplay is clumsy and hurried.
And as for the sex, it’s all wham, bam, was that it?” It was by a stroke of luck that I recently got hold of ‘How To Be A Great Lover’ by Lou Pajet and this week, I intend to share his: “Key to fabulous sex,” which he agrees is foreplay. This might turn a fumbling lover into a sex machine! Take kissing for instance,a common mistake men make, according to Lou, is thinking that the things they enjoy will he pleasurable for their partners too….
“The man who doesn’t like a tongue in his ear is rare,” Lou observes. But the woman who does like it is rare still. For most women, the “melt zone is the neck. They go gaga when kissed there. If you have other melt zones,let your lover be aware of this. Ask for his too!!
Sex toys: “The job of a sex toy is to enhance, not take over,” Lou explained….”Even if you’ve not used toys before, they can add sparks to your sex life.”
Finding the G-Spot (No, G-spot is not a type of acne cream!) The G-Spot is located inside the vaginal entrance, above the pubic hone in the front wall, Lou stated. “If he imagines your vagina entrance as a clock, the G-spot is typically at noon. In order to “Hit the spot, the man should use his middle finger in a circular motion.
Another tip is for him to press gently on top of the vagina with his other hand. This will increase a woman’s pleasure.” Lou pointed out that it is not just men who need to rethink their technique …. Women should be willing to expand their bedroom skills too by first learning how to stimulate their men by hand …. It’s an easy skill to master,” he insisted.