A group of us from my university went to this hot party and I ended up going home with a very attractive man. We didn’t actually have sex, but we fooled around most of the night.
The next morning, I woke up dying of embarrassment as I was totally naked in bed with this total stranger. Luckily, he was really sweet about the whole thing and we spent the morning talking. He turned out to be a real gentleman, so I gave him my number but I haven’t heard from him since.
Is it because he’s written me off as a slut? Was that the reason why he didn’t have sex with me when he had all the opportunity to? Is there a way I can explain to him that I’m not normally like that and see if we can possibly start again? Mphumi, by e-mail.